The Portuguese Association for Victim Support (APAV) supported 3,671 individuals between 2021 and 2024, with over half experiencing continuous violence, and 29.9% taking two to six years to seek help.
Carla Ferreira from APAV, discussing these figures, emphasized that domestic violence against men is often overlooked. Although less frequent among men, it significantly impacts victims. She pointed out that the stigma associated with this crime among men is prevalent, leading some victims to only seek support when they reach a breaking point.
Furthermore, some victims reported they hesitated to ask for help because they believed victim support services only assisted women. This reveals existing organizational and cultural barriers that must be addressed.
“Even though violence is more associated with women, it still affects men. The stigma remains, and frequently, help is sought only under extreme circumstances,” she asserted.
Highlighting a 48% increase in this crime against men, Ferreira attributed it to a growing awareness of domestic violence as a universal issue.
“While the majority of victims remain female, the rise we’re witnessing is linked to increased visibility and understanding that domestic violence is a widespread phenomenon,” she explained.
She noted that one in four victims are elderly, suggesting a growing recognition and focus on violence against older adults.
Discussing the crimes committed, Ferreira stated that, aside from physical violence, episodes of psychological violence, threats, stalking, and, in some cases, economic coercion are common.
“Physical violence isn’t always predominant. Often, there’s a pattern of intimidation, emotional blackmail, and constant control,” she remarked.
Regarding perpetrators in domestic violence against men, APAV data indicates that most are women (1,974; 52.9%), aged between 36 and 55 (27.3%), and were or are intimate partners of the victim (1,995, 53.5%), such as spouses, girlfriends, or partners.
For elderly victims, Ferreira observed that “perpetrators are not necessarily spouses but can be children, grandchildren, stepchildren, sons-in-law, daughters-in-law, etc.”
In 61.3% (685) of cases, the violence occurred in the shared residence with the perpetrator.
Ferreira stressed that “no violence is tolerable and nothing justifies violence.”
“If facing a situation that causes discomfort, or if someone may be experiencing violence, they can always contact us. Our support is free, confidential, and we are here to guide, listen, and support as needed,” she urged.
